When we are in a serious relationship with someone, we would like to think that we know them on a very intimate level. We trust that everything they say to us is true, and it can be devastating when that trust is broken.
The story that we have for you here describes what happens when such a relationship ends up in shambles. It doesn’t have to be something that occurs regularly in order for this to happen, this was a rather strange occurrence.
It all started when a woman and her fiancé were getting ready to be wed. He made a request of her that blew her mind. What would she do? Read on to find out more.
The woman really cared about her fiancé. She couldn’t imagine being with anyone else because she believed they were meant to be together.
About eight months ago I proposed to my fiancé. It’s two days until the little wedding we’ve planned. Everything went smoothly. We are incredibly in love with him and he seems perfect,” the woman said.
Her fiancé popped the strange question just two days before the wedding. In front of his brothers and uncles, he wanted his father to find out if she was still a virgin.
At first, the woman assumed it was a joke, but was shocked to discover that her fiancé was serious.
He went on to say that in his family, the night before the wedding, the father makes sure the bride is “pure” by asking if she is still a virgin. This unsettled the woman and she hesitated.
The man insisted that his mother must also help. In an attempt to convince her that she had nothing to hide if she was a true virgin, he claimed that this would prove his love for her.
Which option did the woman choose?
The woman could hardly believe it. Her fiancé sobbed as she decided to go. “It was really intense,” she reported.
She loved the man and wanted a life with him, even though part of her wanted to call off the wedding at the time. She began to think about the special ritual that would be necessary to gain family acceptance.
To get her bearings, she spent some time at a friend’s house. When she saw her fiancé the next morning, she informed him that she would not allow his family to question her and that he had to respect her decision.
The man said that in order for their wedding to take place, he had to do it. Because she refused to attend the ceremony, he said she lied about being a virgin.
The woman tried to remain calm and reasonable. But the man was becoming more hostile, and the more she explained, the angrier he became.
“I said if he really loves me, he should support me and say no to his father,” the woman said. She thought he would agree, but his answer took her by surprise.
When she said this, instead of supporting him, the woman was slapped. She assured his fiancée that she couldn’t prove anything.
She was devastated when she discovered that the man she loved was not flawless. She decided to call off their wedding after it was revealed that he was someone else.
The state of affairs made the woman very depressed. She stayed with her friend, allowed herself to experience every feeling, and then focused on getting better and getting back on her feet.
